The Problem with Saying Sorry

Now a Days we live in a world where people throw around words & terms with no actual regard to what they mean and with no actual weight to them and also are either quick to apologize for everything they do or not willing to apologize for anything they do at all!

For me I realize owning up to your mistakes and taking responsibility is the main importance, but at the end of the day we all need to understand that part of the reason you have a problem with what ever it is I might have done is due to your misconceptions and or life perspectives, basically all the crap that you bring to the table is your baggage, and its you effecting you, my actions whether bad or good depends on your perspective and your life lessons, if someone screwed you in the past a certain way then your just walking around now waiting and expecting the next person closest to you to do the same. And the moment they do anything questionable they get the full wieght of your last encounter with who ever screwed you before!?

Saying Sorry doesnt always cure the problem sometimes it makes it worse and also not every situation deserves a "Sorry", a lot of people throw it around to try and get a quick fix to a problem, the same way people throw around "I Love You" like it means nothing more than a key to fixing the problem at hand or gaining access to a friendship or getting someone to do something for you.

It's not easy to recognize these moments that require an apology and the ones that dont, but in the end you need to hold true to your thoughts and ideals and your actions, if someone can't see the need to look past them for the sake of your relationship or friendship then that is their choice not yours! - rkd